Dating a widow with young children too soon
The commitment to each other has taught the importance of recognizing needs and priorities—and the newly widowed doesn’t want to compromise.
But time plays only one part in the decision of when to date.Your dad has been defined throughout your whole life through marriage to your mother, as father to you.Imagine how nerve-wracking and terrifying it must be to find yourself alone after many years of marriage, without a touchstone or witness to your life, all while mourning an immense loss, and try to have sympathy for your parent.And don’t forget that wildcard pair of luck and timing.Just because you stumble across someone who is right for you soon after widowhood doesn’t mean you weren’t happy previously. Take your time to get to know the person, date as friends first and don’t lend any money. What do I do if my grown kids don’t like my new partner—or even the idea of my dating?